Spoiler: You don’t destroy her. You outgrow her. 1.  Live Well Without Her Narcissistic mothers hate one thing above all else: being irrelevant. The moment she realises you’re thriving, laughing, glowing, growing — without her input or approval — that’s the moment she panics. 🎯 Your joy is her defeat. Go get that degree. Start the business. Love your body. Travel. Build a life that’s yours — not the one she tried to guilt you into. 2.  Go Silent — and Stay Sparkly Going No Contact or Low Contact is revenge with glitter. Because narcissists feed off chaos, arguments, drama, and your pain. Take all that away — and suddenly, she’s just an angry woman shouting into a vacuum. Silence is the loudest scream you’ll ever give her. She’ll say “you’re selfish” or “brainwashed.” That means it’s working. Keep shining. 3.  Become the Mother You Needed Here’s the mind-blowing plot twist: You don’t need her to change anymore — because you did. Start ...