(And Why So Many Lost Souls Keep Looking for Someone Who Will Let’s get right to it: There’s a quiet epidemic happening — not the flu, not social media addiction, but emotionally and spiritually lost people latching onto confident, grounded partners as a shortcut to healing. You’ve probably met someone like this. Hell, you may have dated them. Or maybe you’re still recovering from it. Let’s unpack it — fully, honestly, and with no punches pulled. 🚩 The Pattern: Lost People, Found People We’re seeing more and more people who: Feel disconnected but can’t explain it Are intelligent but emotionally avoidant Want deep love but have never done deep healing Gravitate toward someone confident and emotionally grounded — and cling And their partners? Often they’re the ones who: Understand themselves Do the emotional heavy lifting Set goals, boundaries, and intentions Radiate clarity and calm Become the emotional scaffolding for someone else’s unprocessed mess ...