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How to Spot Conditioning in Relationships

  Sometimes, what we think is love, loyalty, or just “how relationships are” is actually emotional conditioning. It happens over time—through repeated patterns, subtle messages, or more overt manipulation. Before long, we’re reacting, adjusting, and over-functioning in ways that don’t feel like us anymore. This post explores how to notice those patterns—and how to begin separating yourself from them. What is Conditioning in a Relationship? Emotional conditioning is when you’re trained—consciously or not—to put someone else’s comfort, needs, or approval above your own. It’s not always loud or obvious. Often, it’s quiet and persistent. And over time, it makes you question your instincts, ignore your needs, and tolerate things you wouldn’t have at the start. Signs You’ve Been Conditioned 1.  You Apologize All the Time You say “sorry” even when you haven’t done anything wrong—like when you need space, set a boundary, or express a feeling. This kind of over...

Cash flow is fucking you over

If your earning £1,000,000,000 a year and your spending £1,000,000,000 on crap that doesn’t make you money your fucked. 

On the other hand if your making £1,000,000,000 and take out a loan of £1,000,000,000 on a 5% interest rate and buying real estate for £2,000,000,000 and renting it out for more than the £1,000,000,000 loan and interest rate  your leveraging the loan to make you money plus you still have the asset to sell if need be. Your initial £1 trillion cash investment is holding its value whilst in the bank would be losing money due to inflation. 

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