How to Become the Woman You Never Had as a Mother
Some of us didn’t grow up with nurturing mothers. We didn’t have soft words whispered in our ears, arms around our shoulders, or a safe space to cry. We didn’t have someone telling us we were beautiful when we felt broken. We had silence. Coldness. Chaos. Or worse — cruelty dressed as care. So how do you grow into a whole, loving woman when you were never mothered properly yourself? You become her. You become the woman you always needed. You become your own mother. And here’s how: 1. You start by unlearning the lies If you were made to feel like a burden, like too much, not enough, hard to love — that wasn’t truth. That was projection. That was an adult who couldn’t meet their own emotional needs, blaming a child who had no power. You strip off those old layers of guilt and shame. You stop carrying bags that were never yours to hold. 2. You reparent yourself You become the voice that says: You’re safe now. I’m proud of you. It’s ok...
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