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Why Lying to Your Narcissistic Mother is Essential (And Morally Justified)

Let’s be clear: you don’t owe honesty to someone who’s spent their life twisting your words, gaslighting your reality, and using your honesty against you like a weapon. This isn’t about being petty. It’s about survival. It’s about peace. It’s about freedom. Here’s Why Lying Works: Self-Protection: Telling the truth to a narcissist is like handing them bullets and expecting them not to shoot. Lies build a shield between your real life and their drama. Drama Minimisation: Narcissists feed on reactions. Strategic lies starve the drama beast. They can’t twist what they don’t know. Your Sanity: Sometimes you lie just so you don’t have to justify normal things like seeing friends, enjoying your own birthday, or not being manipulated. The Golden Rule: Lie to a narcissist like you’d lie to a toddler with a tantrum. Calmly. Effortlessly. Guilt-free. Examples of Healthy Narc-Lies™: “Of course I’ll think about it.” (You won’t.) “Yeah, I’ve been really busy lately.” (B...
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How To Stop Procrastinating

 I have had this problem for a while and the whole "Work From Home" thing is a major distraction when you're trying to get work done.

At the moment I have a sink full or washing up, a carpet covered in nut shells where a certain animal thought it would be a good idea to taste all of the nuts in the bowl, plus a whole laundry service waiting for me to attend to !

and yes im writing this blog now because I would have normally procrastinated due to the chaos in my house but im ignoring it all and just doing my days work until 6pm and then I will deal with it.

Normally I would be in the office and all these distractions wouldn't be around me so I would just work and forget about the mess. Im now sat amongst the mess it would be easy to not work and clean up or get depressed looking at it but I am laser focused on  my work hour time to just work and allocating the mess to the hours I would have normally associated them with.

its easy to procrastinate due to the endless tasks we have but if you allocate certain times for certain tasks life gets a lot easier and everything has its allocated time slot and you get so much more productive.

ill let you get on as I only allocated 15 minuets to this blog post as I have a massive reconciliation task to finish by the end of play today.

Go on get productive, you got this....


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