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Not Rich, Just Radiant: Why Having Your Shit Together Attracts Parasites

You don’t need millions in the bank or a blue tick on Instagram to attract leeches. You just need your shit together. A roof that’s paid off. A car that’s yours. A steady routine that doesn’t involve chaos. Maybe even a peaceful home and a stocked fridge. That’s all it takes. And suddenly—they appear. Out of nowhere. Like emotional debt collectors in human form. With just enough charm and “woe is me” to make you second-guess your gut. You’re Not Rich. You’re Radiant. Let’s be clear—this isn’t about money. It’s about what you represent. You’ve survived. You’ve worked. You’ve cried in the dark and got up anyway. You’re no longer riding the drama rollercoaster—and that makes you magnetic. To the wrong people, you are peace, and they crave it. They want access to your calm, your resources, your steady heartbeat. But here’s the thing: They don’t want to build it. They want to plug in. Like emotional parasites with Spotify ads: draining your energy with promises of “j...
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how to talk to a narcissistic parent or ex

 One word… don’t

Stop calling them, ignore there texts, don’t reply.

You might need to give them a small taster by letting them know your still there by answering say one call or text saying your busy but eventually they’ll give up and find someone else. 

How do I know this? My mum is an extreme narcissist and only calls when she has cancer again or a problem, I help her by ignoring her to learn to deal with it herself.

My ex of 24 years! I know! Highlighted his narcissistic behaviour during COVID and it got worse by the day, I eventually hid all my personal belongings in the car, hid the car told him to leave straightaway and give me the house key.

There’s no helping these people unless they help themselves first, don’t waste your energy and most importantly protect your brain, your not a bad person.

If you need to speak to them, just talk about facts but even this can become exhausting if you reply to a nasty comment. If they make a nasty comment just ignore or walk away, don’t react. 

You got this x 

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