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Why Do All Bad Habits Seem to Involve Putting Stuff in Your Mouth?

Understanding the Psychology Behind Oral Fixations and Habit Loops Have you ever noticed that many of the habits we label as “bad” revolve around putting something in our mouths? Whether it’s cigarettes, junk food, alcohol, chewing gum, biting nails, or even constantly sipping coffee—our mouths get a lot of action when we’re stressed, bored, or trying to self-soothe. So, what gives? Why do our brains love using our mouths as a go-to coping mechanism? Let’s break it down. The Root of Oral Fixation: It Starts Early In psychology, the concept of oral fixation was first introduced by Sigmund Freud. He theorized that during infancy (the oral stage of development), babies experience the world primarily through their mouths—feeding, exploring, and self-soothing through sucking. If certain emotional needs aren’t fully met during that stage (or if they’re overindulged), some people may unconsciously carry those oral cravings into adulthood. This can manifest in habits like: ...

how to quit bad habits cold turkey

 The quickest way to quit bad habits cold turkey is so change the language you are saying to yourself,

Instead of saying

I am a smoker

I am a alcoholic 

I am unhealthy

I am unfit

I can’t cook

 Say

I am a non smoker

I am a modest drinker

I am healthy

I am fit 

I am a chef 


Simply by changing the language you are telling yourself changes your identity and beliefs and creates a healthier you. 

Simply put a post it note on your Home Screen of your phone (I use sticky widgets from the App Store)  

Saying for example 

I am a 

Professional 

Nice person

Non smoker

Modest drinker

Healthy eater 

Entrepreneur 

Multiple income person 


I hope this  helps, please leave your feedback in the comment section below 

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