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Why Do All Bad Habits Seem to Involve Putting Stuff in Your Mouth?

Understanding the Psychology Behind Oral Fixations and Habit Loops Have you ever noticed that many of the habits we label as “bad” revolve around putting something in our mouths? Whether it’s cigarettes, junk food, alcohol, chewing gum, biting nails, or even constantly sipping coffee—our mouths get a lot of action when we’re stressed, bored, or trying to self-soothe. So, what gives? Why do our brains love using our mouths as a go-to coping mechanism? Let’s break it down. The Root of Oral Fixation: It Starts Early In psychology, the concept of oral fixation was first introduced by Sigmund Freud. He theorized that during infancy (the oral stage of development), babies experience the world primarily through their mouths—feeding, exploring, and self-soothing through sucking. If certain emotional needs aren’t fully met during that stage (or if they’re overindulged), some people may unconsciously carry those oral cravings into adulthood. This can manifest in habits like: ...

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 Let’s face it your not going to get her to have sex with you if you haven’t got a connection in your relationship. 

Women focus on relationships before sex is even considered 

You literally have to be her best friend before you can lead an adventurous and exciting sex life 

It’s a connection you have to build on like building a house, a house made of one brick won’t cut it, it has to have 4 walls and a roof.

Women want to be one whilst having sex and this is being fully comfortable with you. 

Once the ground works have been made, the raunchy ideas that go through women’s heads are mind blowing and you will experience the best sex life EVER. 

Here are a few tips if she’s a bit slow off the mark...

  • Role Play 
  • Handcuffs 
  • Crotchless knickers 
  • Different locations
Enjoy x

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