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Why Do All Bad Habits Seem to Involve Putting Stuff in Your Mouth?

Understanding the Psychology Behind Oral Fixations and Habit Loops Have you ever noticed that many of the habits we label as “bad” revolve around putting something in our mouths? Whether it’s cigarettes, junk food, alcohol, chewing gum, biting nails, or even constantly sipping coffee—our mouths get a lot of action when we’re stressed, bored, or trying to self-soothe. So, what gives? Why do our brains love using our mouths as a go-to coping mechanism? Let’s break it down. The Root of Oral Fixation: It Starts Early In psychology, the concept of oral fixation was first introduced by Sigmund Freud. He theorized that during infancy (the oral stage of development), babies experience the world primarily through their mouths—feeding, exploring, and self-soothing through sucking. If certain emotional needs aren’t fully met during that stage (or if they’re overindulged), some people may unconsciously carry those oral cravings into adulthood. This can manifest in habits like: ...

Why do I smoke all of the time

You smoke because your using it as a tool to delay something, so instead of picking up your next cigarette get something really important done. 

For example instead of having a cigarette and thinking too much, just do the task and feel proud. 

Another way of thinking about it is to think how much you spend on smoking and put that towards something nice in your life. 

I just bought a new sofa and it has changed the whole appearance of our living room and I now know I want to see that money make my life better not worse. 

Stay healthy and enjoy life xxx

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